Summary of 'Father to Son' by Elizabeth Jennings (Class 11)

The poem begins with the father expressing deep sadness. He complains that even though he and his son have lived together in the exact same house for years, he does not understand his son at all. They live under one roof, but they behave like absolute strangers. The father desperately wishes he could understand his son the way he did when the boy was just a small child.

The father uses an agricultural metaphor. He says he planted the 'seed' (raised his son) in the soil, but the plant that grew belongs to a different land entirely. This means the father tried to raise the boy with his own values and dreams, but the son grew up to have a completely different mindset, independent thoughts, and a separate life that the father cannot access.

There is a heavy, painful 'silence' between them when they are in the same room. They have nothing to talk about. However, the poem is not about anger; it is about love and helplessness. The father openly admits that he wants his son to return home, even if the son has made mistakes (the 'Prodigal Son'). He would rather forgive his son and have him close than see him move away to build his own separate world.

In the final stanza, both the father and the son put out an empty hand towards each other. They both secretly want to forgive each other and fix the relationship, but neither knows how to take the first step. The poem ends on a note of unresolved grief, highlighting the tragedy of ego and lack of communication.